that little ache, missing someone.

you can't force a blog & you can't really stop it either.
I had every intention to study right now, but then an idea came to me. So the studying will get postponed for a bit, I'll love the freedom of writing creatively and the wonderment of how my words even fit together, and then I'll have to get back to reality...but for a few moments on this Sunday night I'm giving myself a sort of bliss.

Have you ever had the feeling that you really, really, miss someone. No matter if you saw them weeks ago, or a few 'short' hours ago? That little ache in your heart, and the constant thought of them somewhere in the depths of your mind? I have that feeling right now. And it isn't a sad feeling necessarily or a nostalgic thought, but you're just missing them. A feeling like no matter what you are doing it would be better if they were with you...or that even though you can be having a great time with other people and carrying on, in the back of your mind you wonder what that person is doing, and if they ever have felt that little ache for you. It doesn't even have to be romantic. It can be for anyone you really care about. Anyone you could never get enough of. And what if they have that same thought about you, genuinely they feel that way, and you both never say it. I feel like those thoughts and feelings pass us by too often. Because telling them you miss them this way makes you vulnerable, but I feel like it would be flattering to hear from a friend. To know that you had that impact on them, that they care that much. That you're not the only one with a little ache in your heart and a longing to be doing anything with the person you miss.

You can also miss situations, like amazing weekends, or vacations, but most of these scenarios involve people that you experienced things with. People that you miss the moment they are gone. Sometimes you can miss them before you are even apart, because you know the separation has to come eventually. And you'll eventually feel okay about it, and that little ache may go away, but I wonder if it always stays there?

It is kind of strange to think about though, because in a sense you're lucky because you have someone that you can miss. But, nevertheless you want to be with them.

It can be a bit distracting....hmmm.
To add to the thought is this song...
Isn't it a good one?
Xo

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